Chapter 6
The first year after the trials was the hardest in a different way.
There were no more court dates. No more late nights with lawyers. No more waiting for the other shoe to drop.
There was just… life.
Ordinary, loud, messy, beautiful life.
And I had no idea what I was doing.
I’d been a dad for seven years.
But for most of those seven years, I’d been the fun dad. The one who came home from work, played for an hour, read bedtime stories, then went back to work or let Claire handle the hard parts.
Now I was everything.
Breakfast, lunch, dinner.
Laundry. School lunches. Permission slips. Soccer practice. Ballet lessons. Doctor’s appointments. Nightmares. Tantrums. Potty training.
I burned toast. I shrank Lily’s favorite sweater. I put Noah’s diaper on backwards three times in one week.
I felt like I was failing every single day.
One night, after I’d yelled at Lily for leaving her backpack in the middle of the floor for the tenth time that week, she’d started crying and run to her room, and I’d found Noah eating a tube of diaper rash cream in the bathroom, I sat on the kitchen floor at 10 p.m. and thought maybe Claire had been right about one thing.
Maybe I wasn’t enough.
Maybe I couldn’t do this alone.
Marnie found me there ten minutes later, two beers in her hand.
She sat down next to me on the floor, didn’t say a word, just handed me one.
I took a sip.
“I’m messing this up, Marnie. I’m never home enough. I yell too much. I can’t keep up. They deserve better.”
She punched my arm, gentle.
“Shut up. You are the best father those kids have ever known or will ever know.
You know how I know? Because you care enough to sit on this floor and worry that you’re messing up.
Claire never did that. She never cared enough to worry.
You burn toast? So what. Lily thinks your burnt toast is the best thing ever. You shrank her sweater? She’ll wear it as a crop top. Kids don’t care about perfect. They care that you show up.
And you show up. Every single day. Even when it’s hard. Even when you’re tired. Even when you have no idea what you’re doing.
That’s enough. It’s more than enough. It’s everything.”
She was right.
Of course she was.
I stopped trying to be perfect.
I started asking for help.
I took the new job at the AG’s office, running the digital forensics unit, and stuck to my 4:30 p.m. hard stop every day.
I hired a part-time housekeeper to come in twice a week so I didn’t have to spend my weekends scrubbing toilets.
I traded late nights at the office for late nights on the couch watching bad movies with the kids.
I learned how to braid Lily’s hair. Not well. But well enough.
I learned all the words to every song on Noah’s favorite playlist.
I learned that it’s okay to say “I’m sorry” when I yell. That it doesn’t make me weak. It makes me human.
And slowly, slowly, we found our rhythm.
Lily turned nine.
She joined the school robotics team. Made the honor roll. Stopped having nightmares entirely.
She still had her bad days.
Every once in a while, something would trigger her. A raised voice. A red dress. A woman laughing too loud in a restaurant.
She’d go quiet. Cling to Mr. Floppy. Need an hour of quiet cuddles on the couch.
But those days got fewer and farther between.
She was healing.
She was happy.
Noah turned two. Then three.
He was a ball of chaotic energy, ran everywhere, climbed everything, talked nonstop about dinosaurs and trucks and how he was going to be a “dinosaur doctor” when he grew up.
He barely remembered Claire.
To him, “Mommy” was just a word he heard other kids use.
He had me. He had Marnie. He had Lily.
That was his whole world. And it was more than enough.
Claire appealed her conviction. Twice.
Both times, the higher courts upheld the sentence without even holding a hearing.
She wrote Lily a letter once a year from prison.
The court screened them first.
Most of them were still full of excuses, still blaming me.
I never showed them to Lily.
I put them in a box in the back of my closet.
If she ever wanted to read them when she was older, she could.
Until then, she didn’t need that poison in her life.
We started new traditions.
Every November 14th, the anniversary of that night, we had “Brave Day.”
We ate Lily’s favorite pancakes for breakfast.
We did something fun all day. Zoo. Aquarium. Amusement park.
And at dinner, we each said one thing we were proud of ourselves for that year.
Lily always said “being brave.”
Noah always said “eating all my broccoli.”
I always said “getting to be your dad.”
We were happy.
Really, truly happy.
I thought that was all we’d ever need.
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Just the three of us and Marnie, our little weird perfect family.
I had no idea the universe had one more good thing in store for us.
